Yes, I said “Sex Energy”! How can you maximize this energy to co-create and deepen your current relationship? Or maybe you wish to attract a partner or heal an existing relationship?
April is here and “Love is in the air”! Spring brings vitality and virility.; humans are indeed, part of this cycle, and In Deed, act on this rebirthing energy. It’s part of the fun of living! For all practical purposes we’ll call it “sex energy” and it’s an energy that impacts all living things from flowers to our sexual powers and everything else in between!So how can you maximize and synergize the energy of Spring to attract and create more loving relationships with Self and your loved one? April’s Intuitive Energy Healing Workshop Series at Paradise Found will have you practicing some energy-work techniques to heal relationship wounds and deepen your current connections across the board, but for starter’s let’s begin with 3 simple practices you can put into action immediately. It’s akin to gardening!
- MAKE A CLEAN PATH FOR LOVE- Clear out the weeds or the dried brush, so that the soil of your Heart (the seat of Love energy in your body and energy field) has a clear path for Love. This means that old hurts, wounds or storylines we tend to tell ourselves must be cleared away and transmuted. What does “transmuted” mean? That we don’t sweep hurt feelings under a carpet or minimize our own views by simply ‘waving a white flag’. Denial delays healing and can only lead to more conflict and pain. Transmuting means that we honor the dance we are doing with this person by realizing our hurts are not our ultimate realities; or the only perspectives to sit with. We want to create space around our attachments to our viewpoints so we can shift internally. When we transmute old conflicts or weed-like energy, we leave off playing the blame-game; we take a responsible perspective and honor our role in co-creating a circumstance. We practice compassion with ourselves while doing so, and this enables our compassion for the other to grow. Remember at the deepest level, we all want to be cherished and held in esteem. Any and all acting out behavior is usually caused by not feeling important enough on some level. Pain is the thing that begets more pain, whereas mercy, and forgiveness with self and other begets more love. How can you love yourself more and have more self compassion and compassion for another? I like the Ho’oponopono technique because it’s short and easy to remember. From an energetic standpoint, it moves dirty energy out of the energy field and literally activates the heart chakra. Highly recommend The Book of Ho’oponopono by Bodin , Lamboy and Graciet for this practice.
- CALL FORTH YOUR OWN SEX ENERGY, to feel open, playful and creative. Whatever sadness or frustrations in life, it’s possible to experience happiness at the same time as frustration, when we have created enough spaciousness within us from practicing to transmute old wounds. Calling forth your own sex energy can be done though chakra awareness, breath-work or mantra. In the workshop we will experiment with a few of these techniques. For now, simply remember, you cannot relate deeply to another when your own cup is empty or you are unhappy within yourself. If you are not feeling the love you are inside, it’s impossible to have much to give and your receiver-ship skills will be compromised. In other words, the things you’ll be open to receiving or likely to receive may be things that only provide temporary comfort or relief, instead of long sustainable deep connectedness. Committing to a daily practice reflecting on your strengths and your positives goes a long way towards cultivating your sex energy. It isn't simply in how we look that necessarily lends to “sexiness”, rather it’s in how we carry ourselves and feel inside. Try a values based mediation:
- Choose three words you wish embody to call forth your inner sexiness. For example; “Confident-Vivacious-Spontaneous” or “Kindness-Humor-Curiosity” or “Glowing Health-Warm Smiles-Generous”)
- Commit to sitting daily in the morning, and stare at each word for two minutes. You can set a timer if you like.
This exercise alone will expand your auric field and increase your magnetism almost immediately, for energy follows where we focus our attention. Making this a practice only intensifies the outcome.3)
ENJOY THE “VITAL LIFE ENERGY” or “SEX ENERGY” IN YOUR ENVIRONMENT- There are too many puritanical thought forms around sex, creating perspectives that reduce sex energy to taboo, or something to be embarrassed about. But “sex energy” is simply the co-creative aspect in all things. Without our creativity, our reproductive forces and skills are hampered. So celebrate sex energy by Acknowledging the light and vibrancy in all beings and people. Let yourself feel and connect with the vibrancy that is the Real You. This practice can even inhabit your personal care routine. I like stimulating my sense of smell by using essential oil sprays or emollient essential oil based lotions by Nubian or Acure or the Life Force Renewal Arua Cleanser Spray by Botanical Alchemy! Scent creates a mood and stimulates shifts in the brain, thus positively impacting your brain waves. Keeping fresh flowers is another way to engage the sense of smell. This internal alchemical practice is simple but powerful and accessible. One only has to remember in order to practice.In the hub-bub of life we tend to forget what powerful and effective beings we are. We think we need elaborate things, clothes, gadgets; or the right body; or the right looks, etc, etc, etc. What if you could effect huge changes with simple adjustments? I challenge you to put these into practice, to prepare for my workshop, or simply to add more edge to your game. If you find need of a private session to facilitate deeper relationship healing you can email me at AskLaniNow@gmai.com.Wishing you spring in your every step as you move deeper into the joy that is your own sex energy, today and always!SaveSave
