In the realm of human existence, at some point in life, we must deal with a traumatic or painful experience. And for many, these experiences may come to our conscious mind every so often, at times triggered by certain behaviors, words, smells or events. These experiences can go back to early childhood and we may have accumulated an entire basketful throughout our lives.
Unfortunately though, when these memories resurface, they can interfere with our decision making processes and our actions toward others. We have been conditioned to act differently based on our experiences. While this can be a good thing and make us more knowledgeable and more aware, thereby protecting us from making the same mistakes, it can also back fire and hold us back, not giving a new acquaintance, friend or partner the chance they deserves—a clean slate. We must carry our own baggage & we must learn to let it go. Why would you wish to hold on?
The entire outcome of a friendship, relationship, or business association can even depend on the signals we involuntarily send, the subtle messages and the actions we take. And shockingly so, we may be completely unaware of this! So what can be done about this?
It’s time to take stock. What are you holding on to that does not serve you? How are you manifesting these beliefs into your daily life? It may not be a pleasant experience but when completed in its entirety, you will become fully aware of anything you need to work on. Of course, awareness itself still won’t change the outcome, you must work, work, work!
It is time to take responsibility! It is time to realize how your decisions have steered the course of your life. Are you surrounded by people who do not serve your current path? What about letting others emotionally and spiritually cross boundaries you are not comfortable with? It is necessary to look in great detail at every one of these situations and it is absolutely vital to come to peace with the end result. I bet you may even find that there is a valuable lesson to learn from it. A great gift!
Once you reach this stage and can look at the part you played, you will be able to truly leave the past behind and enjoy the amazing opportunities which you just multiplied by dropping your old beliefs. Now it is truly time to manifest. Just remember, be very aware of what you truly wish for, chances are it will come true if you really want it and take the necessary steps.
For a more in depth talk on how to go about this process, please contact Paradise Found to make an appointment with me. May you soar like an eagle and feel light like a feather...
